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Sunday, April 14, 2024

1970s Middle Class Was POOR

Everyone keeps telling me that middle-class living in 1970 is now povery.

Who believes this crap? Do you think I'm a complete idiot? No one alive in the US today is poor by 1970s standards.

You have a supercomputer in your back pocket that can access all of the world's information in seconds. That supercomputer is also a telephone, instant messaging device, camera, video recorder, calculator, voice recorder, music player, video player, radio, GPS, complete map set of every road in the world, flashlight and notepad.

If you don't know how to do something, you can get a step-by-step video that walks you through anything you care to try. You have access to pretty much every song ever recorded by anyone, anywhere and you can play those songs anytime you like, through wireless earbuds no bigger than a dime.

Automobiles are more reliable, water is cleaner, air is cleaner, no lead in the gasoline or its fumes or the exhaust emissions. Laparoscopic surgery means an appendix or gallbladder removal can be out-patient surgery and you're back on your feet in hours, not days or weeks. Dentistry does not involve spitting in a bowl.

Lifespan is 20 years longer. Since 1960, the largest gains in life expectancy occurred between 1970 and 1980—an increase of about three years from 70.8 to 73.7 years. In 2024, it is currently 79.3 years. Stents have cut open-heart surgeries in half.

In 2024, you can buy a four-door 2009 Honda Odyssey with room for eight passengers, a cupholders and individual climate control for every seat.

You can get kiwis, Chinese food, Thai, Japanese, Ethiopian, Korean, Vietnamese, Mexican, Brazilian, Australian food at the local supermarket or a nearby restaurant.

Your TV is not a monolithic block in the corner, it is thin as a dime-store novel, with a screen larger than a station wagon's front windshield, full color, stereo and it hangs on your wall. You have one in every room of your house. You didn't need to run cables to connect them to the antenna on the roof or to anything else.

Even if you're living on the street, take a look at the tent you just bought, stole, got donated to you. That space-age fabric didn't exist in 1980. Neither did the flexible self-stabilizing pole system, which allows tents to be setup on sidewalks. Couldn't do that in the 1970s, because no one could drive the tent stakes into the concrete. Tents could only be set up where there was earth to drive the stabilizing ropes. Look at the sleeping bags, the cooking utensils, the disposable needles and syringes. The K1 auto-disable syringe was invented in the late 1990s. Even life as a drug addict is better. 

Stop telling me you got more for your money in the 1970s.
Anyone who tells me that is clearly either ignorant or a moron or they think I am one. I would rather be poor today than rich in 1970. A poor person today has access to a lot more comforts than even the rich did in the 60s and 70s.

Friday, April 12, 2024

Ethical AI Use

I train people to use technology as their primary job. Everyone thinks there are some kind of "copyright issues" associated with AI use, but that just doesn't appear to be the case. 

Reading a book or news website, or using it to train yourself to understand English, so that you become marketable, is perfectly acceptable use. In the same way, using a book or news website to train an AI is really no different than using those same books or websites to train a non-native language speaker to understand and speak the language so s/he can get a better job. No copyright infringement there.

The US Copyright office does not recognize machine-output as something that can be copyrighted. So, using AI output as your own is perfectly legitimate. AI is a tool, like a printer. If I give a printer a text document, that document gets processed through the application software, the OS, the printer drivers and finally the printer, before the user gets a printed page, yet we don't claim the user is somehow being unethical when they pass off that printed page as their own work.

Yet that printed page is just as much an individual's own work as the output that comes from an AI after the user provides a prompt. Tens of thousands of people, millions of man-hours, came together so that the application, the OS, the drivers and the physical printer would do what the user wanted. Same thing is true of AI. Neither will do anything until the user prompts them to do it. 

There are really no ethical or copyright issues involved in the use of AI. But, people don't want to hear that, so they shut their ears to it. 

I discussed AI with a student. She could see that it would overtake various aspects of the technological job we train our students for. She observed that an AI could program a router or switch, or entire classes of devices, much faster than she could. 

The advantage she felt she had was in orchestrating the overall purpose. While AI is good at grunt work like generating essays or programming interfaces, it doesn't do it for a reason, but only in response to user prompts. She didn't see that changing anytime soon.

She is certainly correct about the AI getting the step-by-step recipes done faster and more accurately. It's not clear to me whether she is correct about the AI not seeing the overarching purpose of a specific AI-curated event or situation.

This borders on the realm of the philosophical. It depends on whether or not purpose is ultimately a natural (i.e., mathematical) result or if it depends on some supernatural level of understanding. In short, this is really a question revolving around whether or not you believe in God.

If mankind is purely natural, and if math is truly the language of nature, then AI will be able to attain a truly purpose-driven perspective on what it does. In this perspective, AI and man are equally natural, and therefore can be equally powerful.

However, if mankind possesses a supernatural element, a strand in his/her makeup that transcends the natural/mathematical realm, then AI will not be able to capture the essence of "purpose." If man is truly a possessor of the "spark" of the divine, or somehow made "in the image and likeness of God", then AI - a natural, man-made artifice - cannot leap across that infinite chasm.

It will be interesting to watch how this pans out. 

 

Friday, April 05, 2024

Female Sexual Predators

For the woman, the man is a means: the end is always the child.
        ~Friedrich Nietzsche 

In this short video, Jordan Peterson outlines why the current male-female relationship situation is so dangerous for society. In his explanation, he elucidates the issues in an ancient debate. 

One of the constant themes in the Old Testament is that the sexual appetites of WOMEN must be controlled.  In the OT, women are always the sexual predators. Same thing is true in the New Testament. The woman is caught in adultery, not the man. The woman is told she must love her husband, but the man is told he must actually die for his wife, the implication being that her faithfulness isn't guaranteed with any smaller male sacrifice. 

The OT priests sacrificed animals for the unfaithful bride that is Israel, but that turns out not to be enough - Christianity discovers that the husband actually has to sacrifice himself to satisfy the blood lust of the bride and keep society stable. In that sense, the various Christian Bibles substantially tell the tale of the black widow spider, or the praying mantis and her mate. Christianity is the story of a powerful male being killed and consumed by the female for the sake of fecundity. The resurrection just continues the Good News story: a woman CAN have her cake and eat it too.  But, if it is any consolation, as she wipes her lips, the woman does say she feels really guilty about the whole thing.

Female hypergamy destroys societies. The Jews control hypergamy by requiring the man to maintain his wife in the style to which she was accustomed (Marylin Monroe indirectly alluded to this requirement in Gentlemen Prefer Blondes), a right which many women consider foundational to their relationships. 

... a rabbinical court can compel a husband to divorce his wife under certain circumstances: when he is physically repulsive because of some medical condition or other characteristic, when he violates or neglects his marital obligations (food, clothing and sexual intercourse)...

Islam handles female sexual predation by requiring the woman to be veiled and to have a male escort in all public venues. Proof of rape requires the testimony of four male witnesses, and rape can only be perpetrated against Muslim women. This veiling is not unique to Islam. Ultra-orthodox Judaism and Catholic female monasticism require women to be veiled in very similar fashions. 

Christianity uses virginity of the Blessed Virgin as an archetype precisely because her virginity served as a model and control on female hypergamy. Notice that Mary is almost always dressed as what we would consider a medieval nun.

There was long a debate in the early Church concerning whether women should be allowed to remarry at all after the death of their husbands. The alternate argument, which eventually lost, was that marriage was an eternal sacrament, like baptism, confirmation and holy orders. Once you were married, re-marriage would be impossible because you were married to your spouse even after death. While this argument was lost, it is interesting that the argument was made, and considered merited, at all. 

Ancient societies saw female sexual predators as much more dangerous than male sexual predators. I can see no evidence that their assessment was wrong. 


Wednesday, April 03, 2024

A Relationship Epiphany

 Everyone complains that men are terrible at relationships because they don't communicate, they don't talk about their feelings, they don't emote, etc. But, is that really true?

Consider these three videos:

Tik-Tok Transcript:

"You know what, I have a list and you can tell me if any of these ring a bell. These are all men who have had divorces initiated against them:

  1. Brad Pitt
  2. Johnny Depp
  3. Jeff Bezos
  4. Bill Gates
  5. Elon Musk 
  6. Dr. Dre
  7. Ryan Reynolds
  8. Tom Brady
  9. Lance Armstrong
  10. Alex Rodriguez
  11. Channing Tatum
  12. Chris Rock
  13. Ben Affleck
  14. Chris Pratt
  15. Liam Hemsworth
  16. Ben Stiller 
  17. David Duchovny, 
  18. Orlando Bloom
  19. Tiger Wood
  20. Sean Penn
  21. Sylvester Stallone
  22. Paul McCartney
  23. Ryan Philippe
  24. Jason Mamoa
  25. Michael Jordan

These are all very attractive men, high status men, wealthy,  and even they can’t keep a chick. I consider myself kind of a normal dude. Bro, if Brad Pitt can’t keep a chick, I’m f*cked."

Youtube Transcript:

"What is a woman truly saying if they're saying if they say 'I don't like nice guys'?"

They're saying my nervous system does not produce the effect that I call love around people who do not send it into some kind of fight-or-flight response. When I am met with someone who does not make me chase, when I am met with someone who doesn't make me feel I have to earn their love, who doesn't play games, who doesn't give me anxiety by being consistent for three days and then dropping off the radar for five or a week, when I am with someone who doesn't do those things it does not feel like love to me, it doesn't feel like passion, it doesn't feel like fireworks, it doesn't feel like the thing I think I'm supposed to feel..."


Facebook video

Interviewer: More often than not, of all the relationships you have had, do you end the relationship or the guy?

  • Woman 1: I've ended every single relationship.
  • What about you?
  • Woman 2: I've also ended every single relationship.
  • How many relationships have you been in?
  • Woman 2: Three
  • Woman 1: Three
  • What about you?
  • Women 3: Mostly me 
  • How many relationships have you been in?
  • Women 3: Four or five
  • What about you?
  • Woman 4 I've ended them all, I think like five
  • Woman 5: I've ended them all, and I've only been in two
  • What about you?
  • Woman 6: I've been in five or six, and only once has someone else ended the relationship
  • Woman 7: 75% me, eight or nine relationships.
  • Woman 8: Four relationships and I've ended all of them
  • Woman 9: I've ended all three

Whoah! So hold on, a typical complaint I hear from women is why are men so commitment-phobic? Why are men scared of commitment? Why don't men want to get married? All of you, it's almost unanimous, have ended all of your relationships. Once you get commitment, you overwhelmingly end it."

Women don't like being accountable. 

Conclusion

Keep in mind, women initiate 70% of divorces. College-educated women initiate 90% of the divorces

So, people are wrong to ask why men won't commit. The correct question: "why do women almost always initiate break-up and divorce?" Commitment is not a man problem. Commitment is a problem with women.

Women don't like to face the fact that it is female insecurity and female incompetence at maintaining relationships which drives almost all relationship problems. Men don't have relationship problems, women do. 

Women are absolute crap at maintaining relationships. They project their failures and their incompetence onto the men. It ain't us, ladies. It's you. 

An Easter Meditation

 If any of the soldiers at the tomb converted and were executed, they would have been the first martyrs, martyred even before Steven, Proto-Martyr. That seems unlikely. I mean, how would the Church have missed that?

So, conversion-execution definitely didn't happen.

If any of the soldiers guarding the tomb converted but were not martyred, everyone was very quiet about it. Think of the picayune details that we are given. We even know Joseph of Nicodemus donated the tomb. That's a pretty minor player. But, despite naming all these minor players, no one mentions the soldier(s) who converted as a result of what they saw at the tomb? Seriously? They talk about every other player, even women, but not actual eyewitnesses to the actual resurrection?

But you imply Luke was thinking to himself, "Sure, I've interviewed a lot of witnesses for my Gospel and for Acts, and soldier George is an eye witness to the single most important event in this entire story, the very reason we are even writing any of this down... Because of what he personally witnessed, he became a follower of Jesus Christ.... hmm...

However, in the 'cons' column, soldier George isn't an apostle, so his conversion story and the details of what he saw at the tomb aren't nearly as important as all the things that the women and the apostles DID NOT see, so ... yeah.... let's leave George's account out. It is not really relevant"

Somehow, I doubt that would be Luke's reaction to news that a Roman guard converted as a result of what he saw at the tomb. 

Which indicates that none of the soldiers who actually would have been eyewitnesses to the actual event of the resurrection ever converted.

FYI, the story of  Longinus doesn't appear until the fourth century. The soldier's name was unknown to the Gospel writers, but the Gospel of Nicodemus, from which the name first derives, also names the thieves on either side of Jesus. 

Saturday, March 30, 2024

Subverting Nature

"The entire leftist regime is an artificial construct reliant on the subversion of nature via a leviathan capable of wealth extraction. They treat the return of the natural order as an existential threat because it is."

But part of that same "subversion of nature" is air-conditioning, vermin control, antibiotics, combustion engines, fresh oranges in winter, etc.

Putting a uterus into a man's body is the leftist version of putting air-conditioning into private homes. When even genetics can be manipulated (thus the leftist hard-on for mRNA vaccines), then there are no limits.

It's a real existential question. Are we subverting nature? It's not like we aren't still bound by the laws of physics and chemistry. It's just our power in physics and chemistry, our intimate knowledge of those laws, allows us to manipulate biology to a hitherto unequalled degree.

The "natural order" is that our lives are brutish, painful, disease-ridden and short. Pretty much everyone rejects at least some part of the "natural order." That's why we wear clothes and use fire to cook our food. The question is whether there is a line that can/should be drawn.

The whole transgenderism push is insane for those of us who see biology as a fundamentally different science than physics or chemistry. Christians see biology as bound up with personhood, being in the image and likeness of God. But not all worldviews, not even all theological worldviews, actually accept personhood as a valid quiddity

To those who reject the idea of personhood, those who instead see biology as a mere extension of physics and chemistry, biology as an application of those two areas of knowledge, than putting a uterus into a man's body is no more "subversion" than any other application of physics and chemistry we have hitherto made.

Monday, March 25, 2024

St. Paul's World

1Now concerning the things whereof you wrote to me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. 2But for fear of fornication, let every man have his own wife: and let every woman have her own husband....  6But I speak this by indulgence, not by commandment. 7For I would that all men were even as myself. But every one hath his proper gift from God: one after this manner, and another that. (1 Cor 7:1-7)

After two millennia, St. Paul's world is finally coming into focus, where all men are like him, at least in regards to conceiving children. As anyone paying attention knows, the global total fertility rate (TFR) is dropping like a rock. According to a study of 204 countries published in the Lancet, 76% percent will fall below population replacement rates by 2050 (estimated global TFR 1.83), 97 percent will fall below by 2100 (estimated global TFR 1.59).  By 2100, only six countries will still have positive population growth.

I have pointed out elsewhere that the Catholic Faith was very successful in agrarian, subsistence-level societies, but does very badly (as do all faith systems) in technological, surplus-goods societies. While I could see that this was the case, I couldn't figure out why. However, while reading the following essay, this line jumped out. It resolved the issue:

This deep desire, by both men and women, to do meaningful and important work — not just have well-paid jobs — has a substantial negative impact on their desire to have children. 

The idea that every man and woman has meaningful and important work to do, this is an ancient and foundationally Catholic idea, bound up in Genesis itself:

The gods themselves exemplified the Greco-Roman attitude. In the entire pantheon, only one god was crippled and ugly - Hephaestus/Vulcan. He was the smith, the maker of technology, the only one who got filthy dirty in his craft. His feet were on backwards and he had been cast from the heights as a child because of his extreme ugliness....

... [But] out of all the pantheons of all the gods in all the cultures of the world, I am aware of only one culture which rejected the idea that manual labor was not fit work for divinity. That would be the Hebrew faith, the faith whose God actually worked with His own hands in the clay of the earth and breathed His own life into the clay His hands had formed....

...Labor was hard, but suffering in one's work was reasonable because... well, because we are meant to imitate Christ and HE suffered in His work. He was a carpenter, He worked in wood as He had long before worked with His Father in clay.

 Thus, John Paul II, in Laborem Exercens, can say:

Work is a good thing for man-a good thing for his humanity-because through work man not only transforms nature, adapting it to his own needs, but he also achieves fulfilment as a human being and indeed, in a sense, becomes “more a human being”.

This emphasis on the divine image that is manual labor is precisely why the Catholic Faith was particularly suited to agrarian societies. But, besides emphasizing the importance of manual labor, Catholic Faith did something else no one had ever done before. 

The Marriage of Intellect and Work

I have written elsewhere about the fact that intellectual superheroes are functionally non-existent in comic-book universes. Sure, some characters are described as being super-intelligent, but none of them actually display that super-intelligence. Felicity Smoak can crack codes and write programs in a time frame absolutely impossible for normal human beings, but when she is finally given physical deeds of derring-do to do, that is, when she finally becomes a classic superhero, she is immediately killed

Ancient agrarian societies have many variations on Hercules, but, apart from Odysseus and Loki, they have very few intellectual heroes. When intellectual heroes appear, they are tricksters and cheats, their good qualities matched or outweighed by the damage they do to those around them. Remember, while Odysseus is the hero of the story, he is able to save only himself. He gets all of his companions killed.

Agrarian, subsistence-level societies value strength over intellect because agrarian societies don't expect anything to change. Great intellect is not needed. The great-grandson's life is not expected to be any different from that of his great-grandfather. Children live the professions of their parents, grandparents, great-grandparents. Intellectual pursuits are the hobby of the rich, a way of virtue-signaling one's superiority to those who worked with their hands. Most of the ancient philosophers came from wealthy families.   

The Catholic Faith changed this equation. Intellectual pursuits were originally just a form of wealthy virtue-signaling. With Catholicism, instead of merely virtue-signaling, the intellectual was expected to do meaningful work that directly benefited others. Catholic intellectuals did not just answer theological questions, such as the true nature(s) of the God-man, or the intricacies of how the sacraments worked. Intellectuals could also answer questions about the natural world, the world God had made with His own hands.

As a result, Catholic society was no longer bifurcated into a slave world and an intellectual world, as it had been in the pagan Greco-Roman age. Rather, the two worlds were joined together in a common task: building up the city of God. The intellectuals were now tasked with improving the lot of the wage-slave. That meant the intellectuals were duty-bound to lighten the burden of the slave, make his work easier, encourage the use of tools, investigate the physical world to assist in the work of creating a richer life for all. Monastics built labor-saving machinery so they could spend more time at the altar. This labor-saving machinery also allowed the common laborer to do the same.  

Contrast this attitude with the ancients. The ancient Greeks and Romans knew about steam power and automation, but Greco-Roman intellectuals never thought to apply these advances to assist common people. Precisely because the God of the Hebrews and the Catholics was the god of slaves, a God who worked with His own hands in the clay, the Catholic Faith was originally the faith of slaves and women

For as many of you as have been baptized in Christ, have put on Christ. There is neither Jew nor Greek: there is neither bond nor free: there is neither male nor female. For you are all one in Christ Jesus" (Galatians 3:27-28)

The unrecognized intellectuals within these groups finally had an outlet for their intellectual activity, a way to meld the work of the hands with the work of the mind. The celibate life became a way for a man or woman to devote him/herself to intellectual pursuits. Even the slave or the woman could do it. The slave priest or the Christian consecrated virgin could receive enough money to live on from fellow Christians while devoting themselves not just to the spiritual needs, but also the physical needs, of their fellow slaves.

This had never before been possible. In both Judaism and pagan societies, having children and family was a divine ordinance: For instance, in both Hinduism and Judaism, the priesthoods are hereditary. Pagan Rome had Vestal Virgins, but there were only ever six of them at a time. Even then, they took their vows between the ages of six and ten, and they were sworn to celibacy for thirty years. Widespread celibacy was seen as an attack on society, the loss of fertility that was created by celibacy was penalized by the community

The First Great Divorce

Catholic celibacy, on the other hand, was celebrated. It was not restricted to a tiny priestly elite, rather, it was recommended for everyone who could handle it. Catholics deliberately and systematically destroyed family life as the highest goal, and replaced it. Celibacy became the highest goal. This was a radically new idea. However, as the historical dominance of celibate men and women in technological progress shows, the deliberate destruction of the family  turned out to be beneficial not just for spiritual pursuits, but also for technological progress.

Celibacy, the release from family obligations, allowed the great majority of scientific advances made in the Middle Ages and the Renaissance. Right up through the Enlightenment, deacons, priests and bishops made up the majority of what we now call scientists. The celibacy that allowed intellectuals to focus entirely and exclusively on intellectual pursuits led to the massive success of those same intellectual pursuits. Because Catholic celibacy was now the highest goal in life, and because celibacy could be pursued by anyone, everyone with the capacity to be an intellectual could now become one. It is estimated that between 15 and 25% of the Medieval European population was celibate. This was possibly the largest creation of a dedicated intellectual workforce in history.  

The Second Great Divorce

Clearly. Catholic celibacy promoted scientific progress. So, why did the science and faith divorce? They divorced because people began to realize that 

This deep desire, by both men and women, to do meaningful and important work — not just have well-paid jobs...

did not actually require the religious aspect in order to succeed. Procreative control could be accomplished using other rationales. Thus, we should not be surprised to see the "conflict thesis", the idea that religion is opposed to science, arose precisely over the problem of procreation

Darwinian biology directly implied "eugenics". Eugenics was a radically new attack on family life. Darwin's work implied that, not only was celibacy, or at least the refusal to procreate, a positive good, celibacy was so good that it should be imposed on people who were not biologically qualified to procreate. Religion permitted celibacy for those capable of intellectual pursuits. Science now wanted to impose celibacy on those who were not capable of intellectual pursuits. Both Catholicism and science saw themselves and their worldview as improving society, but the question of which should have the power over procreation now became the centerpiece. Because Catholicism refused to coerce celibacy, it was branded anti-scientific. Eugenics fought, and still fights, Christianity on this point. 

Now, it is one of the great ironies of evolutionary theory that, apart from Darwin himself, the people who proposed survival of the fittest, and who stress the importance of eugenics don't themselves have replacement level fertility. That is, ardent evolutionists apparently don't see themselves as worthy of procreating. But, leaving this aside, we can now see why surplus-goods societies don't have replacement-level fertility. 

This deep desire, by both men and women, to do meaningful and important work — not just have well-paid jobs — has a substantial negative impact on their desire to have children.... 

... Work is a good thing for man-a good thing for his humanity-because through work man not only transforms nature, adapting it to his own needs, but he also achieves fulfilment as a human being and indeed, in a sense, becomes “more a human being”.

Child-Free: More Human?

Everyone wants to "become more a human being." People began to see it was not the religion, but the worldview that allowed people to pursue child-free lives, that made radical help for the poorest of the poor, possible:

31 And they that use this world, as if they used it not: for the fashion of this world passeth away. 32 But I would have you to be without solicitude. He that is without a wife, is solicitous for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please God.  33 But he that is with a wife, is solicitous for the things of the world, how he may please his wife: and he is divided. 34 And the unmarried woman and the virgin thinketh on the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit. But she that is married thinketh on the things of the world, how she may please her husband

Childhood and poverty are closely linked. The corporal works of mercy are identical whether a parent applies them to his child or a celibate applies them to the poor. Both the Catholic and the technologist want "the fashion of this world to pass away." Both want a better life for the children, the only difference being that the technologist, the social justice warrior, sees the government as the Church and the poor as the children. Both realize that avoiding procreation helps bring those who avoid it into razor-sharp focus on what matters. The focus of the child-free person allows that person to build a better life for everyone. 

The Logical Conclusion

So, if we are to free the world of poverty, and if the poor man is but a kind of child, then the technology which rids the world of poverty establishes the greatest good. The child-free society that Paul originally recommended to everyone moves everyone towards that good. Like the child-free monks of old, technologists strive to be free of the concerns of this world. The focus on technological advance and labor-saving machinery can remove our concerns about food, clean water, medical care, housing, poverty in general. We can achieve a technologically poverty-free society by pursuing a child-free life. 

People who have children are not as good as people who don't. Catholic faith has long taught this as a foundational truth. Can anyone blame the world for taking the lesson to heart?.

As the original essayist proposed, it may soon be the case that work and progress will be made so easy, that child-bearing and child-rearing may again be permitted to become an important work to society. After all, as the essayist notes, the rich are now having more children than they have traditionally had in the last few centuries. However, it is also possible that most modern cultures will follow the example of Rome, and simply collapse from dropping fertility rates.

But, for good or ill, the dropping fertility rate of our surplus-goods societies are merely the  world answering the radical call St. Paul made two millennia ago. At the moment, all are becoming like him, and forgoing procreation.


Wednesday, March 20, 2024

Marriage, in Fine

 Gender is an attribute of grammar, not sexuality.

Your sex is established at conception, and cannot be changed.
The word "marriage" appeared around 1300 and likely descended from the Old French "mariage" of the 12th Century and the Vulgar Latin "maritaticum" of the 11th Century, ultimately tracing to the Latin "maritatus", past participle of "maritare". Thus, the word "marriage" ultimately derives from Latin mātrimōnium, which combines the two concepts: mater meaning "mother" and the suffix -monium signifying "action, state, or condition."
Marriage referred to a right to inheritance. A man in the Roman Empire might have many concubines, sex slaves, prostitutes, etc., and might conceive children with all of them. However, only the offspring of the woman he married would have a right to inherit his estate. 

In short, to "marry" someone refers to the man's ability to make a woman into a mother, who bore children who could inherit. Thus, someone conceived and born as a woman cannot "marry" another woman, nor can someone conceived and born as a man "marry" another man.